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16. February 2009 by Super Mega Dad 10 Comments

I had an epiphany yesterday morning sitting with my kids.  We had just had breakfast and were sitting down to watch some morning cartoons.  Super Michael asked if he could play XBox, and since the TV was now unavailable, and Princess K still wanted to watch cartoons, she asked if she could watch TV on my cell phone.  I whipped out the cell phone and hooked her up with the Disney channel and she was happy as a clam.  My realization was that in our new world, technology has allowed/forced us to have instant access to almost everything.  As a child, we had only a dozen or two of channels to watch on TV and we were lucky to have that.  I bought my first computer with my own money when I was somewhere in the neighborhood of eight or so and it had a whole 2K of memory.  The Internet was something that was only in Universities and military installations and was known as ARPANET.  The web was something you saw in the backyard, and a mouse was something you didn't want in your house.

Flash forward to today, where almost everyone has access to the Internet, and even my cell phone has millions of times more memory and thousands of times more processing power then my first computer.  If one preferred, you would never even need to leave your own home.  You could work from home over the Internet, shop over the Internet for food and necessities, or even socialize with people from around the world without having to step outside of your home.  It has made our world smaller and given us incredible access to information.  Never before in our history have we had such access to information and events.  We know about events from around the world the moment they happen through Twitter and instant messenger. 

Even entertainment has changed.  As a child, we watched things on TV when the network put them on.  Video tapes didn't come out until I was a little older, which made things easier, but compared to today with video on demand, Netflix and the Internet, which allows you to watch anything, anytime, my kids are pretty spoiled.  With DVR's, we can record and pause live TV and watch it from any room in the house, or even on the other side of the planet across the Internet.

With all of our technology, are we any better off? Sure, we have access to any and all information we could ever wish for through a simple Google search, but is it any better for us?  Are our kids too addicted to this new instant Internet age? Is it possible that all of this is bad for us?

Like everything in life, things like this need to be taken with moderation.  The access to information we have now, I believe is a good thing.  It allows us to learn about other cultures, to research products before we buy, and to meet people we normally wouldn't meet, but sometimes you just need to turn off the cell phones and the laptops and go out and ride your bike.

We need to teach our kids that it's also fun to play outside in the sandbox and run around the playground and to interact with real people.  But we also need to realize that they live in this new world, it's as much a part of them as breathing.  They understand technology much better then we ever will because they've never known a world without the Internet, text messaging, and DVR's.  We need to teach our children balance and moderation and to use the technology as a tool to improve their lives and not to worry if they play a game every now and then. 

I think my personal history allows me to have a better perspective of this aspect of my children's lives because I grew up as one of the those nerdy kids that spent a lot of time behind a computer and playing games.  My parents worried about me, because at the time computers were so new and no one really thought anything would come of them.  My parents REALLY wanted me to learn some sort of real skill where I could make something of my life.  Fortunately, the world turned in a direction where my hobby as a kid turned into a real paying skill set and now the whole world is just as nerdy as me.  Heck, I bet a lot of you even tweet out your Twitter updates about what you had for dinner tonight...now how NERDY is THAT?  This history allows me to watch my children and understand that they will be OK.  Whatever happens, you never know what may come of it.  Things they are interested in, no matter how weird I may think it is, may turn into the next Internet and my job is to just support them in whatever they decide.

What about the other parents out there?  Do you worry about your kids using technology too much?  Do you limit the time they spend playing games, use text messages, or chatting over the Internet?  And how do you limit it?  What are the rules in your house?

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Margaret
United States Margaret said:

We don't limit TV, Video game or computer time, however we have drawn the line - recently our 7 year old asked for her own cell phone and has hinted at "really liking Facebook" (no she doesn't have an account, nor will she anytime soon).  

But we balance it - if it's nice out, we do send them outside (which is not to say they are actually sitting in front of the TV all day, they choose whet/when they want to watch).  We spend as much time outside as we can, but like now, it just cold and not much to do (and you only need to fall off the monkey bars into an icy puddle once to decide you hate winter).

I do remember one day recently, when the cable was out for the day, one of the girls asked if she could play the Wii and my middle daughter replied with "no, the cable doesn't work, remember" and that was that.  I didn't tell them otherwise, it was good for them to play Tong

So in other words, we don't limit it much (unless it's not really approrpriate) and we have no set rules.  It is what it is.

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Otter
United States Otter said:

I haven't got there yet with my son but I think about how different our worlds are often.  I recently wrote a post about life before the internet and wondered how my kid could even understand such a world.  All this technology is wonderful but you are right saying it should be taken in moderation.  I love to hunt and fish so I will be taking my son outdoors to do those things.  A cell phone will always be there but that is just the way things are today.

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James
United States James said:

Lukas is young, but we still limit what he watches.  Only 10-15 minutes of an elmo dvd every few days.  I know we can't shelter him from all the media for too much longer, but it forces us to actually interact with him much more than we otherwise would and that can only be a good thing.  

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Daddy Geek Boy
United States Daddy Geek Boy said:

I've been thinking about this too, when my kid wanted to watch a show that I didn't have on the DVR and he completely couldn't understand how or why it wasn't available to him that very second.

As for your question...yes, everything in moderation.  We need to understand how the world is changing and make sure our kids are prepared for it.  My parents were afraid of computers, thus I didn't have one for a very long time.  I missed out on learning a lot about them...plus, some sweet video games.

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supermegadad
United States supermegadad said:

@ Margaret:Oh, man, that reminds me that my kids asked for their own cell phones too (3 and 6!).  They got all excited when Super Mega Mommy and I got new phones last week and told them that they could have our (non-functional) old phones.  They were pretty bummed when they learned they couldn't watch TV on the old ones anymore.
@ Otter:I'm headed over to check out that post!  I think I might have missed that one.
@ James:10-15 minutes every couple of days?  Wow!  My kids are definately couch potatoes then.  I guess they learned from the best. Smile
@ Daddy Geek Boy:We solved this by getting Verizon FIOS with the Video On Demand service as well as Streaming Netflix.  My kids are REALLY spoiled.  They don't like going to grandma's house, because she's too old fashioned.  No DVR, no Internet, no Video On Demand.  You think they were depreived or something. Smile

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1sttimedad
Canada 1sttimedad said:

Access to information is definitely a double-edged sword. I work at a community newspaper, so we do a lot of stories on teenagers and local high schools, and it's amazing how involved kids are these days. There are tons of kids in my town of 17,000 who truly are going to make a difference in this world, whether locally or abroad. It's beautiful to see and I hope my daughter is so passionate about others as well.

The downside to all the technology and information overload is the lack of imagination the upcoming generation has. I'm a Big Brother to a 12-year-old and I swear, he cannot come up with an activity for us to do unless it's a movie or Guitar Hero. There's just no carefree 'play' anymore when entertainment is video games not hide and seek.

I guess you have to lose innocence to gain activism, right.


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Maureen
United States Maureen said:

I definitely think that it's much more difficult for parents today than it was when I was a elementary-aged kid almost 30 years ago.  Back then there weren't many options.  We HAD to go outside and explore or stay inside and make up stories, play hide and seek, bake cakes....  Today, you do want your kids to be involved with emerging technologies because it will benefit them, but now we have to balance that with giving them enough time for "free play", which they sometimes resist, and also the organized sports -- karate, t-ball, soccer whatever -- so that they have a chance to exercise.  Then there is homework and family time.  It's enough to leave a parent totally frazzled.   I remember my mom opening the front door and letting all of us kids out to explore all afternoon.
I was on my own a lot at age 6 -- wandering the neighborhood.  Would I let my kids do that?  Hell no.  Wish I could, but we've been programmed that that is wrong.
Wow, I got off topic and should probably post this on my own blog.  Sorry.  Just wanted to say that we do limit tv and video games/internet to about an hour a day total.  But it's tough.  There are so many new technologies out there to explore, but you have to make sure the kids get some fresh air and real life stimulation.


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supermegadad
United States supermegadad said:

@ 1sttimedad:
I never even thought of it this way.  It DOES seem like the kids have no imagination today and it's very difficult for them to come up with original ideas. We were always inventing new games as kids.  Maybe it's more difficult for kids today because everything IS handed to them and they don't have to make toys out of bits of junk because their parents can't afford real toys.
@ Maureen: I remember walking around my town with my buddies as well.  My parents didn't think twice about us wandering around on our own, but today, I don't even let my kids play in the front yard without an adult out there with them.  It's a different world now.

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bogart
United States bogart said:

I remember being limited to 1 hour of TV per day...with the following caveats...we could watch as much news as we wanted (and my friends wonder why I am such a political follower) and we could not watch MTV.

When i have kids, I hope to have some limits on what they do on their own, have time for the family to do technology together and have outside play time...we will see if it works.


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