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17. February 2009 by Super Mega Dad 6 Comments

Last night was a pretty rough night.  It started out with Super Michael yelling down around 9ish having had a bad dream.  Super Mega Mommy was going to bed at the time, so he headed off to bed with her while I stayed down stairs.  Around 10:30ish, Princess K yelled down and SHE had a nightmare.  Since the big bed was already occupied, I brought Princess K downstairs with me while I worked on my blog entry yesterday and got caught up with some DVR stuff I recorded.  I thought about putting BOTH kids in the big bed with Super Mega Mommy, but quickly thought better of THAT one because the kids would have just goofed around and no sleeping would have been had for everybody involved.  Plus our bed isn't THAT big.

Whatever it was Princess K had a dream about must have been pretty bad, because she wouldn't let me out of her sight.  I went to cover up Lennie the Super Guinea Pig, and she freaked out because I left her on the couch alone.  She had to follow me around everywhere.  I locked all the doors, Princess K was right there.  I got up to get a drink of water, Princess K was there as well.

Around 11ish, I finished with all of my chores and decided I needed to get her up to bed even though she was sitting here wide eyed and not looking anything near sleepy.  I got her upstairs, told her to stay put while I moved Super Michael out of our bed and into his bed and then came back and got her into the big bed.

I'm not sure what is up with both of my kids but they have to sleep on TOP of me.  And they are like little furnaces with their little bodies getting super hot when they are in bed.  When either kid is in our bed, I usually end up on the very edge of the bed with about 2 inches of space to myself with one of the kids cuddled up behind me and usually several feet of empty space until you get to Super Mega Mommy.  Is it that I'm just more cuddly, or maybe they get their lava bodies from Super Mega Mommy and she's too hot to cuddle up against as well?

So, around 1:30, after no sleep up until this point on my part, I decided Princess K MUST be ready to go into her own bed and I proceed to take her into her room.  I get her down alright, give her a good night kiss and "I love you's" and head off to try to get SOME sleep.  I'm JUST about to fall asleep, when she starts yelling like crazy for daddy again and I have to go and get her and bring her back into the big bed.  Super Mega Mommy must have put her to bed at some point after that, because she wasn't in the bed when I got up.

So, I spent all day just exhausted while both kids had EXTRA energy.  It's just not FAIR that they can sleep either 12 hours at a time, or 3 hours and STILL have the same energy levels.  I really have no idea where they get all the energy they have.  It's not from the ZERO food that they eat during the day...unless you count the mass quantities of fruit snacks and fishy crackers that they eat.

Which brings me to my question of the day.  My kids have nightmares and are scared of monsters and we either have to sleep in bed with them for a bit, or they want to come sleep with us.  This really cuts down on OUR sleep and makes me a cranky boy the next day...well, CRANKIER anyway.  What do you do with your kids when they get scared?  If your kids are scared of "monsters", what do you do to calm their fears?  Yes, we have monster spray.

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SciFi Dad
Canada SciFi Dad said:

You get two inches?!?  Dude, I wish I got two whole inches.

My daughter is the same way, except that she is very specific about where she sleeps (it has to be spooning, with my arm under her head): if I roll over and press my back to her, she gets out of bed, walks around to the side I'm facing, and climbs back in.

As for the monster thing, we haven't dealt with nightmares (knock on wood) yet.  She even watched Monsters Inc. last week and thought it was funny.  (Actually, maybe that movie might be a good one: basic plot is that monsters are scared of kids, but go into their rooms to scare them so they can harness the power of children's screams... eventually they learn that laughter has 10x the power of scream.  OK, so I just spoiled an animated movie.  Sue me.)

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Otter
United States Otter said:

Don't have kids big enough for monsters yet but I feel your pain on the sleep deprivation.  I haven't slept in the bed with my wife in months.  We rotate nights with Braden.  Somehow I have managed to not get enough sleep for 3 straight nights.  It is snowballing on me.

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Daddy Geek Boy
United States Daddy Geek Boy said:

I encountered the monster thing for the first time the other night.  My brilliant plan was to lift the pillow where the monster was hiding to show that there was no monster.  But of course, monsters can move so it was a failed plan from the start.

My wife says her parents used "bad dream spray" and it worked like a charm.

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James
United States James said:

Lukas has had a few nightmares so far, but he never leaves his crib.  We will stay with him in his room for as long as it takes.  Don't want to go there.

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Maureen
United States Maureen said:

I feel for you and my husband could have written the part of your post about having 2 inches in the bed.  We are very sleepy around here these days.  My kids have always been pretty good sleepers... going down without a fuss and sleeping in their own beds.  But about six months ago, my daughter started crawling in our bed in the middle of the night.  My son usually makes his way in at about 4 a.m. Half the time I don't even notice until they are already there.  The bed heats up to about a thousand degrees and my husband is hanging off the bed.  We've tried putting them back in their own beds, but they somehow keep coming back.  And you get to a point where you are so darn tired that you just give up.  
As for monsters, I blow the bad dreams out of their heads before bed each night -- just blow really hard in each ear.  This has done the trick for us.  We also give each of them a "weapon" of some sort in bed, like a Luke Skywalker action figure or some tricked-out hotwheel car to scare off any lurking monsters.  Plus, they share a room, so I think that helps.

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supermegadad
United States supermegadad said:

@ SciFi Dad:
OK, it sounds like I've had it pretty well, even with my 2 inches. No one has to cuddle up to any particular way, as long as they are just ON TOP OF ME.  
We've also tried showing him Monsters, Inc to show him monsters weren't that bad, but he wouldn't have anything to do with it. Very frustrating!
@ Otter:
Our bout with Monsters started around 1 year old with Super Michael, but has only recently started with Princess K at 3. We've been pretty lucky with her, but with Super Michal's monster issue, I think a little has rubbed off on her.
@ Daddy Geek Boy:
We've tried getting him up and showing him inside his closet, inside the drawers, outside his window, etc, to no avail. We just don't know what to do at this point.  
@ James:
We tried that too, but when he was in his crib, we lived in an apartment and the neighbors we're REALLY noisy. I think that's what started this whole problem.
@ Maureen: Again, I guess I feel lucky here. Our kids don't even wander out of their own beds YET. They would rather yell for us and have us come to them.

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